I Know Now That I Want the Chicken, I Love You, And I’m Going to Do What’s Best for Me.

My face when someone asks me what I want for dinner/when I am trying to make a big decision…

Making decisions is hard for me. I have a hard time moving forward when I don’t feel like everyone I know and love is on my side and is 100% on board. Well, the thing is, I have a lot of people I know and love and the likelihood that we’re ALL always going to be on the same page is pretty unlikely.  

The bottom line is when it is my life that I’m making a decision about and I know in my gut how I need to move forward the opinions and agreement of others needs to take a backseat. Thank you, Dad for helping me figure that out today. (My Dad is freaking awesome by the way…)

So, I encourage you to ask yourself two questions when you’re making a decision that I am now employing as I move forward with big decision making:

  1. Who am I doing this for?
  2. What matters more to me? Listening to what I know to be true in my heart? Or making other people happy? 

Most importantly remember that a disagreement with your decision by people you love does not equate with a loss of love. 

Happy day friends, I am sending lots of love and hugs and easy decisions. I love you. XOXO, CAMDW

  • Such great advice. We do know what feels like the best choice. But life can be scary so we look for agreement. Even though we know!! This is great Thank you!!